Translated
from the original by Costas Balomenos
The man in Israel
had unlimited rights as a father that apply to the members of his family.
Rights applicable much longer in the face of his wife. And here was a paradox. What was this? That there was neither one sacred text that explicitly recognizes
the unlimited these
rights against his wife, namely he had no legal
basis for their exercise. On the
contrary some texts of the
Bible clearly allude
the parity between men and women. So, where it came from this
trend of superiority of men over their wives?
Quite simply, some other
texts of the Bible lend themselves to such an interpretation from which the men rushed to take
advantage for their own benefit of
course. So, under the command of the Decalogue: “Do not covet the
house of your neighbor, not to covet your neighbor's wife, nor his slave, nor his maidservant, nor his ox, nor his donkey, nor anything which
belongs to your neighbor”
(Exodus 20 and Deuteronomy 5:21), they had no difficulty at all to deduce that their woman, "belongs" to them like any other good. The wrong perception, which the woman is like a part of
man reinforced and by the Law because it was saying that the woman of a slave
must to sold with him: “If he came alone (meaning
the slave) only will be gone. If he
came with his wife and she
will be freed with him” Exodus 21:3. That “fitment”
was so precious to
the man, who not must anyone to touch
it, as it appears in the Gospel which recounts
the episode with the adulteress. The marital morality was the alpha and omega
of the Jews, especially because
they saw the Romans
or the Greeks
to have a worrying freedom that believed they can affect their own.
The “honor”
then of a woman defined by its purity as a girl and later by the
faith and devotion to her husband.
This had the result,
her contact with the public space
it is impossible without the
presence of man. Any rift in the
coherence of the family
because of woman was a "shame" for
all its members, particularly for men. So the women were required to be careful in matters of "honor", which
was applied not only to Israel but
in all over the Eastern Mediterranean and
in rural societies. These perceptions of
course had to be transmitting
to their children. Therefore the female “honor” had
a close relationship with the
sexual act and
reproduction. The
proof of chastity of woman e.g. the first night of
marriage was necessary, because otherwise
he would turn in her
father's house with painful consequences
for the prestige and
reputation of its members. Source of shame was
the woman and when
he could not procreate. Considered "cursed" by God,
which meant the same time a
kind of 'contamination' and social exclusion, since
she could not e.g. to fill the
pitcher of water
from the well when there were other
women who had given birth and had to wait aside until they leave. This seems very clearly at the Evangelical narrative that describes the “capture” of John the Baptist by his mother Elizabeth:
“After these days
his wife Elizabeth became pregnant and hid herself five
months, saying «This my Lord did in the days
that interested me remove the shame
among the people», Luke 1:24 - 25.
She owed absolute
faith to her husband, but - and here is the key
difference with today - not was able to require that from him the same. Her husband had no the right to sell her, but he could
be to chase away
without any difficulty, simply saying “I in divorce”, while the cases which she had
the right to divorce was very rare. In every respect, therefore, the position which was recognized by the
Jewish society was inferior. For
this reason should not surprise dictum of some rabbis who he
urged men to thank God every day because
they were not made them to be born women, pagans and
proletarians! And the
discriminations against
women were endless. They don’t ate with the men, but they were served upright, a habit
that unfortunately was
taking place in many areas in
Greece until almost the middle of last century, especially when the bride accepted the husband's kin. On the road and in the Propylaea of the Temple was
standing aside. Indeed, in the Temple
had the right to enter only in the specific yard for these. Nowhere else. They spent most of their
lives at home - the small "kingdom" - and usually in the windows they saw in the street was trellises not to see
them as narrates
and the Bible: “The black mother
looked out of the window and
Cicera’s mother lamented through
the trellis”
Judges 5:28. In the old years the
women were not going out, but only with the face covered and
this habit was maintained
in some strict circles. A habit who were applied later and
the Byzantine women, wearing the so-called “chipa”, of
which and the habit that is called even today, for a woman lightweight morals, as “un-tsipa” or “she has not chipa (i.e. shame)”. Needless to
say, that the custom is prevalent
in women of Islam, known to all as “yashmak”. To speak to a woman in
the street, it was great impropriety for the Israelite, especially if she was his wife! This
explains the huge surprise
that the Apostles were felt when they saw Jesus
talking with a woman, a Samaritan, fact
that rescues the
Gospel of John: “At that moment came the disciples and were amazed that speak to woman” John 4:27.
Bearing all the above in mind,
let's see now, how the law was seeing the woman in Israel.
So according to the law, the woman was considered as minor, as irresponsible. The husband had the possibility
to set aside without any
impact for him, all the obligations assumed and the woman who had accepted them
she could not to recourse nowhere to justice. Indeed in the courts - except in certain very rare and exceptional cases - her testimony was not accepted. Therefore we can say
- although we become
somewhat excessive - that legally the woman does not there was as an existence, as
an entity. She was nonbeing, nonexistent. The result of all this was, as a general rule,
to not inherits neither her father nor
her husband and the assets
of the deceased is going to the nearest relative.
But at this point it
should now ask ourselves. Does the woman because of this weakness had not ultimately any right? Each other! Because it was powerless and weak the law protected her.
A large part of the holy book of
Deuteronomy was intended to protect
the woman and this seems particularly in Chapters 21 and 22 thereof. So the holy text was protecting the new one who a man had seduce her and more even this that
had been also raped, the woman who touched upon the price by slander, and even the captive woman,
that the chosen winner had
tried to use her as flesh for pleasure. Let's look at some excerpts. And first the behavior towards captive woman: “When you make war with your
enemies and the Lord, your God,
deliver them to your power and you catch captives,
if any of you have seen among them a beautiful
woman and falls
in love and wants to get her as his wife, he can carry in his home ... she
will stay at home and will cry her father
and her mother for a month. Then
only a man can approach her and make her his wife. If you later he doesn't like
anymore the woman may be let her free. However prohibited to sell
her or to treat her as a slave, after having obliged her to be his wife” Deuteronomy 21:10 - 14. In the event that a man got bored his wife and he slanders her that was
not a virgin: “Then the elders of the
city will arrest the man and
will flog him. Additional would impose a pecuniary penalty a hundred silver shekels,
which will deliver them to the father of the new woman, because he discredited a pristine Israelite woman. Finally she will remain his wife forever. It can not divorce allover his life” Deuteronomy 22:18 - 19. In the event that a man will rape a woman: “If a man meets a young woman who is not betrothed, and he rape her and they discover them, then the man who raped the
girl will give to
her father fifty shekels of
silver, and will take her his wife because humbled her. And in the whole his life he could not to divorce” Deuteronomy
22:28 - 29.
Of course all the physical
preservation of the woman, from
the time which had not been its own resources, burdened her
husband, who ought to provides a
roof to her, nourishes
and dressing depending
on the social position and the means to certainly had: “If the owner of the slave get
and another woman may not cut down her food,
her clothing and the marital relations” Exodus 21:10. In fact if the woman
was not sustained well she could request
assistance and protection from her
father, who hastened to rebuke his groom. But generally it was not necessary something like that. The Jews wanted their wives well dressed and adorned as well wanted
to show that there was abundance of goods at home with the finest wheat
and honey and olive oil
to run in great abundance as described in Ezekiel's
famous aversion to
symbolism of the Lord as husband and Fine Israelite Ethnicity as a wife:
“I have clothe in colorful woven dresses and I
wore sandals made
of softer, smoother skin. I
put belt at your waist with nice linen
and I covered with
silk mantle. In adorned with
jewels: I put bracelets
on your arms and
necklace around your neck, rings in your nose, earrings in your ears
and priceless crown
on your head. Thus adorned with gold and
silver and you are
clothed with the linen and into
the silky and colorful textiles.
You ate cake semolina, honey and olive oil” Ezekiel 16:10 - 13.
Another eminently right
that enjoyed by a woman, was the respect they ought to have the Israelis
for their mother, under familiar to all
of us command of the Decalogue. Worthy of attention is also the fact that in Leviticus 19:3, the woman
mentioned first: “Honour thy your mother and your father”. Although the woman lived in such a stranglehold of domination of men, that it was not
easy bring to her any financial income,
since as a rule the husband was the administrator of the estate,
is assumed that no completely were prohibited on woman to use her personal gains,
if there were naturally. So the worthy woman “looks
a corn field and buys it. With money that she earned, planting vineyard” Proverbs 31:16.
If anyone wondered
from where the woman could have such revenues, the answer is
very simple. Many women with spinning the wool at home and were making filament longer than necessary for the needs
of their family, they kept all the money
earned by selling anything was surplus.
Religiously the women had unlimited freedom in relation to
men. Were not required to reciting the “Shema”, i.e.
the equivalent of our own Jewish “Symbol of Faith”
(“The Creed”),
be present at the reading of the Mosaic Law
or to live in
tents for eight days at the annual feast of Tabernacles
which took place in commemoration
the era they lived in the desert after the exodus from Egypt. But these tasks are
not were prohibited and
were their many rabbis
who encouraged their to
learn well the Law
to teach him their sons and they urge the husband to faithful execution of his religious duties.
But there where the rights of
women peaked, so
that feels like a little queen, was at the family
home. And could not be otherwise,
since the physical role of her was enormous,
because in almost
all ancient peoples many things which today
are supplied ready from a factory or
a workshop then were made by the woman. For
example the fabrics and various items of
clothing that they were spun
and wove at home. Then, the construction of the daily diet
for the whole family. To make the
bread she was taking the
seeds of wheat, grinded it
between the millstones of a small mill, which it had every home and the
product of the grind, i.e. the flour,
she was taking it and knead it with her hands. Then, carrying the wooden trough with the dough usually on the head, its going in the oven, that had
any home to bake it and becoming “the daily bread”, as
mentions and the “Lord's Prayer” in our famous as “Our
Father”, which will harbored
all the family. Of course the shape
of the bread was not as we are used to today,
known as "loaf", but the
form of pie, because the dough was stretched in hot metal plate
to cook. But with the manufacture of “the daily bread”
was not finished yet the contribution of woman in the family home. I had
to supply the house
with another essential
commodity, which today we have without fuss in abundance, after the rapid advance of technology, it has secured to us, the central water supply. The water, the most
essential commodity for our survival
and our sustenance sourced it women with pitchers from
adjacent wells or rivers. It was a rare sight to see a man with a pitcher that had water and that are explained the words of Christ to his disciples, that might sound a little strange,
because it does
not give us his name,
when he sent them to prepare the Paschal Dinner
before his Passion:
“Go to the town and
will meet you one who will keep a pitcher
with water”, Mark 14:13. This, namely that the man was holding pitcher was distinctive sign. Of course, the places where the
women were supplied with water, were places of joy and sociability, because there they found the opportunity to learn and comment on the various foursomes in their area. Another obligation of the woman was also the supply of oil and in particular the very pure oil
that was burning in the oil lamp, the holy Sabbath day. Indeed,
according to the oral tradition of
Judaism, the Gkemara was saying
that those women who did
not cared to
maintain the flame of the oil lamp will were dying in childbirth.
So, because of that significant offer of woman, but also of the binding and dependence of man to her,
especially the emotional,
he found occasion
to manifest the misogyny of men, which is evident in some texts of the Old Testament,
especially in the prophetic. By a
ridiculous way Isaiah calls them vainglorious. “The Lord said, «Look at the women of Jerusalem, just how bragged! Marching
with neck erect, they disperse glances defiantly as well as they go with small
steps and they are knocking the loops of their ankle».” Isaiah 3:16, Amos
calls them tough “Listen to this reason,
women of Samaria,
pudgy like the
cows of Bashan:
Oppress the weak and
depress the poor, say to your husbands, «Bring us to drink!
»” Amos 4:1.
The secretariat occult in the texts of the Old Testament is even more
intransigent and judgmental. The “Testament
of 12 Patriarchs”
does not recognize anything good, but only opportunity for prostitution. From the Testament of Patriarch Rouvim: “Women
are cunning, my children,
because having no power or strength over
man think cunningly
because of their shape, that would cause
attention to them. And because they can not prevail against him with force defeat him with fraud. Because and on these the angel of God said to me and taught me how women beat the man with prostitution, and are
devising means against of people, and with the adornment mislead first the mind
and with the eye spread the virus, and then they capture with their actions. Because the woman can not
force the man. Avoid thus my
children, prostitution, and order it your wives and your
daughters, not adorn their heads
and faces. Because any woman by deceit uses them will receive of eternal hell”. Testament of 12 Patriarchs
5:1 - 5. On the same wavelength about are moving and innumerable aphorisms of rabbis of Judaism. Let us glean a few: “When the Lord gave to mankind ten meters of discourse, women took nine”, “Gluttonous and lazy,
jealous and brawler, so are the women and even they hear on the doors!” “From what part of the
man to send a woman? Wondered the Almighty. From head? Will become very conceited. From the eye? Would be very curious. From
the ear? Will overhear the
doors. From the mouth? Will prate. From the hand?
Would become wasteful. He finally got a very dark place, very occult part of the body,
hoping to make her demure.”
The misogyny does not discerned all the rabbis. Many of them eulogized their insight, their zeal for work, their perseverance, their good
heart. Also
attributed to Gamaliel,
who was - as you know - and the teacher of
the Apostle Paul, the following cute little
story: “An emperor says
to the Wise: «Your
God is a thief: to
create the woman has had to
steal a rib from the
sleeping Adam». The Wise did not know what to answer
and then his
daughter, said to him: «Let me to arrange it». She
went to find the emperor and said to him:
"- We will make a
complaint.
- Nah! And why?
- Entered thieves in our house at night, they stole a silver coffee pot and they left in its place a gold pot.
- Oh and I had every night such visits! , he said laughing the Emperor.
- Well, so did and our God. Got from the prime guy a simple rib and in return gave him the woman!»”
- Nah! And why?
- Entered thieves in our house at night, they stole a silver coffee pot and they left in its place a gold pot.
- Oh and I had every night such visits! , he said laughing the Emperor.
- Well, so did and our God. Got from the prime guy a simple rib and in return gave him the woman!»”
Similarly, the books of
the Old Testament not only
are praising the women but give countless examples
of admirable women for the
courage, generosity, self-sacrifice and magnanimity them. What we will remember first:
the heroic Debora, the self-sacrificing mother of the Maccabaeus, the
demure and prude Ruth,
Judith, Esther and so many others. Let us
remember, however, at this point, the beautiful lyrics that dedicate Sirah to the
woman: “Happy is the man who has virtuous wife.
The number of years of his life will be doubled. Woman active and working
gladdens her husband, and the years of his life will
be full of peace. The virtuous woman is a good gift, which is offered by the Lord.” Sirach 26: 1-3.
Eventually, the woman would find her
actual location in the person of Christ. The Godman who
not stand out the people, he defended her and he liberated her from any
devaluation and injustice against her. He accepted her equally - for that reason it had also schoolgirls, a fact unheard about that time
- with the man,
he crouched with interest and affection in its problems and he protected her from the stringency
against her, of the religious and social norms. Taking the baton from
the Church
of Christ, he
made mystery the love and
the relationship of the man with the woman, likening it with the union of Christ and the
Church, through the sacrament of marriage.
BIBLIOGRAPHY
1. Daniel Rops: Everyday life in
Palestine
in the time of Jesus
2. Collective
volume “History of Orthodoxy, the
beginnings of Christianity”
3. School handbook for Religious, Class B’, High School.
4. Savvas Ch. Agourides "The apocryphal
texts of the Old Testament",
Volume A’.
5. Holy Bible of the Greek Bible Society.
6. New Testament, Apostolic Diacony of the Church
of Greece.
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Christos Pal
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